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What are some sad truths about life?

10.06.2025 12:06

What are some sad truths about life?

#3- It isn't remotely about you. Unless you're really lucky or you worked your absolute a×× off you're going to spend your life in service of everybody else. The silver lining is you can pick who those people are mostly, make sure they're worth it.

#4- People (largely females) on average are going to always gravitate towards the hot toxic jerks over anybody else no matter how good they are and if they'd just stop and date the people with good personalities they could breed hot good guys/girls with good morals and rocking bodies that have it all and would lead the world towards utopia, but instead we'll keep foster homes and abortion clinics well filled until the inevitable heat death of the universe. 👉 Everybody needs to know their worth and find someone who sees them as a prize catch. It's hard. It will probably take awhile, but it's worth it.

#2- If you're hot you can get away with everything short of murder, and maybe even that.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

#1- No matter how hard you try, how much time or money you spend, and no matter how good you are you can't MAKE somebody love you.